Little One recently developed a love of rabbits. She asked for one for Christmas, and was valiantly thankful when She got one- that was plush and stuffed. "Fluffy" has become a favorite, but She still kept asking for a real bunny. To be Her very own, to care for and love.
Soon Missy was drawn into pining for a pet, and their little hearts were just bleeding all over the place making a huge mess. So J and I had a powwow; we needed a plan.
Soon after, I surprised the Sisters with a visit to the aquarium store.

We oohed and aahhed over all the exotic creatures, and then stopped and fell in love with the stand of vivid, flowy betta fish. I pulled them aside and presented The Deal.
IF they earned all the money needed to buy the fish, AND all the stuff fishes need, and IF they promised to take care of the fish and understood that I really, seriously, no seriously, would take-the-fishes-right-back-where-they-came from-so-help-me in the case they weren't being taken care of, THEN they could have a fish. Of their very, very own. To be In Charge of, to love, to name, and to keep.
Well, Little One mused, it's not quite a bunny. But still super great! We had a deal.
They patiently listened to the pet shop guy preach about all that would be needed to care for this menagerie of one. We added up the cost. And went home to the chore chart.
All of those flowers are responsibilities the Littles are expected to complete each and every day. But in the little basket there are stars with extra chores they may do to earn money. There are plenty of options, but since they have not yet figured out how to form a union, the wages for these tasks are quite low- a quarter to vacuum, 10 cents to polish the fingerprints off the chairs. They did lots of extra chores to add to their piggy banks.
Plus, they have both been hoarding money since forever. They each spent some money at Christmas buying presents for each other and for Mister, but otherwise they've scrooged it up in their room every time they find a penny on the sidewalk or rake in cash from selling their old toys at a yard sale.
They also pooled their resources, both in terms of labor and cash, and decided to share a jar of fish food and water conditioner, to save on overhead. Wise financial planning.
Also, all my cheap ways have rubbed off on them. Rather than buy the pricey glass bowls and marbles at the fish store, they chose to shop for these supplies at the thrift store. They carefully compared prices in the glass isle, and chose less expensive options.
So before we knew it, our little laborers had saved up all they needed. They were just a little excited about reaching their goal.
Finally, the big day came. The bowls and rocks were clean, filled, and temperature acclimated. The pennies and nickels were counted and packed up. When I got home from yoga class, the Sisters were at the window, and were jumping into their shoes and jackets before I got through the door.
We drove to the aquarium store and the Littles explained their purpose (by which I mean shouted it while jumping up and down giggling), and the manager was all about it. He told them all about how wonderful they were, and gave them a veritable college course in betta-fish ownership. They listened, they nodded. They asked a few questions. And then. Drumroll please.

They got to pick out the perfect fish. It took a good long time, but in the end they were certain they had chosen just the very exactly perfect, right fish for them.

Little One chose a robust and vivid blue fish with red underfins which swam and swirled quite like a peacock. Blue like the ocean, She named it "Wave".
Missy selected a slender, docile, pale pink opalescent fish with a few purple spots. She'd had the name ready a long time- "Smiley".
We've brought them home, released them from their dixie cups into their new, slightly larger habitats, and they have been quite doted upon already.
Smiley and Wave have joined us at the dinner table, they've been shown countless drawings made just for them, they have been sung to and talked to and cooed at. They are each read bedtime stories by their new girl, and placed on the bedside table to "almost cuddle" through the night.
It will be very interesting to see how these relationships play out. For now though, I'm happy to think that some message about work ethics and economics must have filtered in through the excitement, I'm happy to have had so much laundry sorted for me, and I must admit they are pretty and fun to watch. Mister and I spent half an hour sitting together today, peacefully eating banana slices and watching them swirl.
Of course, part of that time I was thinking, "What are we doing all I need is another two creatures to keep alive around here". But after laying in bed this morning, listening to Missy croon love songs to Smiley, and after Little One whizzed through Her homework yesterday with Wave's "help", I confess it's true. The more, the merrier!
Soon Missy was drawn into pining for a pet, and their little hearts were just bleeding all over the place making a huge mess. So J and I had a powwow; we needed a plan.
Soon after, I surprised the Sisters with a visit to the aquarium store.
We oohed and aahhed over all the exotic creatures, and then stopped and fell in love with the stand of vivid, flowy betta fish. I pulled them aside and presented The Deal.
IF they earned all the money needed to buy the fish, AND all the stuff fishes need, and IF they promised to take care of the fish and understood that I really, seriously, no seriously, would take-the-fishes-right-back-where-they-came from-so-help-me in the case they weren't being taken care of, THEN they could have a fish. Of their very, very own. To be In Charge of, to love, to name, and to keep.
Well, Little One mused, it's not quite a bunny. But still super great! We had a deal.
They patiently listened to the pet shop guy preach about all that would be needed to care for this menagerie of one. We added up the cost. And went home to the chore chart.
All of those flowers are responsibilities the Littles are expected to complete each and every day. But in the little basket there are stars with extra chores they may do to earn money. There are plenty of options, but since they have not yet figured out how to form a union, the wages for these tasks are quite low- a quarter to vacuum, 10 cents to polish the fingerprints off the chairs. They did lots of extra chores to add to their piggy banks.
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| Chopping veggies |
| Working hard for the money |
| Mister wanted to help too |
| Baking brownies from a recipe. All I did was put them in and out of the oven. And eat them. I did lots of that. |
They also pooled their resources, both in terms of labor and cash, and decided to share a jar of fish food and water conditioner, to save on overhead. Wise financial planning.
Also, all my cheap ways have rubbed off on them. Rather than buy the pricey glass bowls and marbles at the fish store, they chose to shop for these supplies at the thrift store. They carefully compared prices in the glass isle, and chose less expensive options.
So before we knew it, our little laborers had saved up all they needed. They were just a little excited about reaching their goal.
We drove to the aquarium store and the Littles explained their purpose (by which I mean shouted it while jumping up and down giggling), and the manager was all about it. He told them all about how wonderful they were, and gave them a veritable college course in betta-fish ownership. They listened, they nodded. They asked a few questions. And then. Drumroll please.
They got to pick out the perfect fish. It took a good long time, but in the end they were certain they had chosen just the very exactly perfect, right fish for them.
Little One chose a robust and vivid blue fish with red underfins which swam and swirled quite like a peacock. Blue like the ocean, She named it "Wave".
We've brought them home, released them from their dixie cups into their new, slightly larger habitats, and they have been quite doted upon already.
Smiley and Wave have joined us at the dinner table, they've been shown countless drawings made just for them, they have been sung to and talked to and cooed at. They are each read bedtime stories by their new girl, and placed on the bedside table to "almost cuddle" through the night.
It will be very interesting to see how these relationships play out. For now though, I'm happy to think that some message about work ethics and economics must have filtered in through the excitement, I'm happy to have had so much laundry sorted for me, and I must admit they are pretty and fun to watch. Mister and I spent half an hour sitting together today, peacefully eating banana slices and watching them swirl.
Of course, part of that time I was thinking, "What are we doing all I need is another two creatures to keep alive around here". But after laying in bed this morning, listening to Missy croon love songs to Smiley, and after Little One whizzed through Her homework yesterday with Wave's "help", I confess it's true. The more, the merrier!

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